Networking Tip: Don’t Spend All Your Time With People You Know by @ItsJoshNorris

I’m guilty of this one myself.  Often times when we show up at an event, we have a tendancy to walk straight up to the first person we recognize in the room.  Before we know it we’re surrounded by 5 of our closest colleagues and may spend the entire event talking to the folks we already know.  While there is a ton of value in maintaining your current relationships and getting some face time with past clients, your ultimate goal at a networking event should be to make NEW contacts.

Networking Tip: Branch Out!

The good news is, having a few folks you already know in the room can actually benefit you in a number of ways.  First off, it helps to make you more comfortable and ease any nerves about being in a room full of strangers.  Second, you now have a few networking partners you can team up with to really take over the room and maximize your number of new connections.

Here’s what I do… After catching up with a few existing connections, make an agreement that you’re going to split up and work the room together. As you meet new people, make it a point to introduce them to some of your colleagues you already know.  ”Hey Jan (new connection) have you met Pablo (existing connection)? He’s one of the best musicians in town!”  Pablo now has a warm introduction to Jan and doesnt have to sell himself (remember, you’ve just given him a rave review).  Rather than spending all your time selling yourself, sell your colleagues and make as many introductions as possible.  They’ll be sure to return the favor.

When you’re lucky enough to show up at an event where you already know a few people, capitalize on the situation by networking together and recommending one another; rather than spending the entire event standing in a circle talking to the folks you already know.

You’ll leave the event feeling good about helping your fellow eventprof’s plus you’ll have a pocket full of business cards.  The only question is… What to do with all those cards…. We’ll cover that next month!

So now Im curious… Have you ever fallen into the same trap? Have you tried this team approach to networking before? Any twists on the idea?

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Josh Norris is a professional magician living in Washington, DC. He provides entertainment for corporate functions and special events throughout the region and at trade shows across the country. He is also the founder of Metro Event Specialists, the largest trade organization for event professionals in the DC Metro area.
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    I fall into this trap all the time. However – I have some friends in the industry who are so very good about introducing me to new people. I do the same thing when I attend an event w/ a friend who may not anyone either. It can be a little intimidating to walk up to a stranger who may be engaged in a conversation with his/her peers too. I observe the event, identify anyone in the room I don’t know and who isn’t talking with anyone at the moment and make my move!!! That’s my method.

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  • Kevin

    Josh I like to go to events with people who don’t do a lot of networking so I can introduce them around. I find it makes me do a better job of networking. Great post my friend

  • http://twitter.com/thehubtalks The Hub

    This post made us think. We have some friends who know the local scene so well that they actually use the events as Girls’ Nights Out. OF COURSE we told them we thought this was weird. OF COURSE we still think it’s awesome that they have networked so much that their friends are now the people they used to network to/at. But we’d take your advice one step further–if you start to find the scene just a place where you know everyone, branch out to a different geographical location, or even a different, tangentially related work field.
    And we have one more tip we’ve used that works well: Make it a point to introduce the pals you already know to someone THEY don’t know. You’d be surprised at the great things that can come from such a simple step.
    Thanks for this great post!

  • http://twitter.com/Metro_Events MetroEventSpecialist

    Thanks for the compliments guys. @TheHub, going to different networking groups is one of the best ways to refresh your networking. While I think you should continue to “show your face” at the regular haunts, you should be expanding your network not just maintaining your existing connections.